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| عضو  ذهبـي 
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رقم العضوية : 72629
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الإنتساب : Jun 2012
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 | المنتدى : 
المنتدى العام 
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			 بتاريخ : 25-02-2013 الساعة : 07:20 PM 
 
 In the Name of Allah Most Compassionate Most Merciful
 
 May Allah`s peace , mercy and blessing be upon you
 
 
 There was a boy who was always losing his
 
 temper. His father gave him a bag full of
 
 nails and said to him, “My son, I want you
 
 to hammer a nail into our garden fence
 
 every time you need to direct your anger
 
 against something and you lose your temper
 
 .”
 So the son started to follow his father’s
 
 advice. On the first day he hammered in 37
 
 nails, but getting the nails into the fence
 
 was not easy, so he started trying to
 
 control himself when he got angry. As the
 
 days went by, he was hammering in less
 
 nails, and within weeks he was able to
 
 control himself and was able to refrain
 
 from getting angry and from hammering
 
 nails. He came to his father and told him
 
 what he had achieved. His father was happy
 
 with his efforts and said to him: “But now,
 
 my son, you have to take out a nail for
 
 every day that you do not get angry.”
 
 The son started to take out the nails for
 
 each day that he did not get angry, until
 
 there were no nails left in the fence.
 
 He came to his father and told him what he
 
 had achieved. His father took him to the
 
 fence and said, “My son, you have done
 
 well, but look at these holes in the fence.
 
 This fence will never be the same again.”
 
 Then he added: “When you say things in a
 
 state of anger, they leave marks like these
 
 holes on the hearts of others. You can stab
 
 a person and withdraw the knife but it
 
 doesn’t matter how many times you say ‘I’m
 
 sorry,’ because the wound will remain.
 
 
 with all my wishes
 
 AL-Jazaereye
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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